
How To Season 3: When Expectations Don’t Meet Reality
The building blocks for realigning expectations and reality in happiness

A column about pointing yourself toward happiness

The building blocks for realigning expectations and reality in happiness

Thinking of yourself as an observer is better for your happiness than obsessing over being observed.

The Roman philosopher Seneca’s essay “On a Happy Life” is full of lessons that are as pertinent today as they were two millennia ago.

Feeling others’ pain can make everyone less happy if you don’t learn to tolerate it.

Scaring children won’t keep them safe. Instead, help them see the good in the world.

Mental and physical pain share neurological roots. A simple painkiller can help with both.

Sharing hard truths might be uncomfortable, but it’s a surer route to happiness than hiding them.

Spending time in nature can help relieve stress and anxiety.

Absolute idleness is both harder and more rewarding than it seems.

A financial downturn doesn’t have to cause an emotional one.