How to Build A Life

A column about pointing yourself toward happiness

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How to Identify What You Enjoy

Arthur C. Brooks and Lori Gottlieb discuss the importance of fun, the cultural distortion of emotions as “good” or “bad,” and how envy points you in the direction of your deepest desires.

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Jan Buchczik

No One Cares!

Our fears about what other people think of us are overblown and rarely worth fretting over.